14 February
Happy Valentine's Day to all those who are celebrating!
I always remember Valentine's day not for the 'celebration of love' day but as one of my closest friend's birthday. She was my batchmate when I joined the corporate world. We were in the same induction class and both of us being a little awkward in social interactions we kind of started gelling together. She was very intelligent and a true geek in every sense. I was not that much of a geek but still I loved her company because the other kids in the batch seemed too different from me. They were outgoing, party loving, pulling night-outs and living the best time of their life with the new found independence of staying away form home. Me on the other hand felt homesick in Mumbai being so far away form home. Partying was never my forte not was hanging out in a large group. So I felt pretty lonely in an unknown city. This friend of mine was a localite so she was staying at her home. The very first interaction point was the food she got from home. I used to love aunty's cooking and her dabba became one of our conversation topics. Food was always an ice breaker for me, even back in the days.
From classroom, when we moved on to real projects, we became bosom buddies. We discovered there was more to us beyond our asocial construct. We enjoyed office trips, we ran an inhouse magazine for 6 months, we did many such things which was quite enriching for us. I know you might be thinking these guys are such bores, at an age where they should have partied hard, she is talking about mental enrichments. But ya, for me mental enrichment was the most fun thing to do. It also pushed me to pursue many of my creative interests.
The most fun part of being with her was her birthday. Now she was not at all a mushy kind of person. She was very practical and straightforward person. But her birthday fell on 14th of February. You see the irony here. We thought the person who is miles away form all these lovey dovey things gets born on a day of love. And just to irk her I would wish her 'Happy Valentine's Day' first thing on the morning of 14th February, instead of wishing her 'Happy Birthday'. The expression on her face after that was priceless - just like a deer caught in front of a headlight. This became a ritual for me even after she left the organization, I left the country, she got married and I moved back to Pune. I had visited her once while in Pune, when she was about to move away to another city with her husband. Somehow after that we lost connect, as there was a lot happening at my end and her end as well. But still I so fondly remember her on each Valentine's day. Its like I cannot start this day without wishing her in my mind. I also wish that we connect back soon again someday.
Now coming back to this day - the day of love. During the college days this day used to be perceived as something special. I used to see my room mate getting loads of Valentine's day gifts from her then boyfriend who used to stay in another state. I envied her, not because she had a boyfriend, but because of the cutesy gifts she would receive. I just wished that someone would also give me some nice, cute and pink gifts someday! The die-hard romantic soul in me would overpower the logical intellectual inside.
Valentine's day back then would mean the city being painted in red balloons, the Archie's gallery in our neighborhood giving discounts on everything, restaurants playing romantic numbers and young couples bunking classes and heading off to some amusement parks or gardens. Our college was very much like a school, so I never saw anyone in my class buking college for going on a date, but we heard about it from the other girls in our hostel. Couple giving gifts (even teddy's), dressing up on the day and hanging out together seemed like a perfect definition of love.
Now with all these years behind me, a special day for love seems futile. If there is one thing I have realized that is a person (guy or girl) who makes you special in even small things in day to day life - like complimenting on your cooking or helping you in household chores, hearing you out on your lowest days, supporting you in achieving your dreams, or just spending time with you even amidst their busy schedules is probably what love looks like. Love is not what you put on your Instagram photos or your Facebook wall, its the one that you cant specifically pin point but its always surrounding you and cushioning you against all the hard times. You cannot take a photo of it, you can just feel it.
For me food is also an expression of love. When I cook for my loved ones, I feel happy from within. I wanted to make strawberry scones this weekend with the beautiful strawberries I had bought a few days back. The scones are possibly the easiest things you can bake. Scones got their start as a Scottish quick bread. Originally made with oats and griddle-baked, today’s version is more often made with flour and baked in the oven. As for the origin of the word “Skone”, some say it comes from the Dutch word ‘schoonbrot’, which means beautiful bread, while others argue it comes from Stone of Destiny, where the Kings of Scotland were crowned. According to Webster’s Dictionary, scones originated in Scotland in the early 1500s.
Scones became popular and an essential part of the fashionable ritual of taking tea in England when Anna, the Duchess of Bedford (1788 – 1861), one late afternoon, ordered the servants to bring tea and some sweet breads, which included scones. She was so delighted by this, that she ordered it every afternoon and what now has become an English tradition is the “Afternoon Tea Time” (precisely at 4:00 p.m.). They are still served daily with the traditional clotted cream topping in Britain.
So lets get started with these super easy strawberry scones. And don't forget to also make the delicious glaze mentioned in this recipe. It adds the right amount of zing to the taste.
- All Purpose Flour - 2 3/4 cups
- Baking Powder - 1 tbsp
- Salt - 1/2 tsp
- Fine Sugar - 1/3 cup
- Strawberry - 1 cup, diced
- Cold Butter - 1/2 cup, cut into 1/2" cubes
- Half & Half ( 1 part cream + 1 part milk) - 1/2 cup
- Vanilla Essence - 4-5 drops
- Egg - 2
- Milk (for brushing) - 2 tbsp
- Icing Sugar - 1 cup
- Half & Half Milk - 2 tbsp
- Vanilla Essence- 3-4 drops
- Baking Tray
- Mixing Bowl
- Whisk
- Strainer
- Oven